Stalker

It's funny how some people gain satisfaction by poking their noses into other people's business. It's terrifying how hard they cling onto their fantasies and spread the invented stories across the globe (or at least, telling those who want to lend their ears). Maybe they think it's fun to make disparaging comments while trying to ruin someone's life along the road (a psycho, perhaps?) Why don't they just sit down and eat what on their plates? 

Some of you might have heard some 'stories' or got asked about me by a certain individual. I'll let you decide the credibility of the stories (and the one who tells it) as we know there's a saying, "Don't explain your self to others for those who love you don't need it and those who hate you don't believe it." That's it. Those who know me, know me. Those who think they need explanation, I'm sorry, I have many other more important and useful things to do than deal with those stories. After all, I have my loved ones around me, why should I care about what the outsiders think?

New Year, New Challenge

Alhamdulillah... A new year has come around, the last one has passed and gone. Many things has happened and most of them are things to be thankful for. So, alhamdulillah for those things again.

This is for the new year, a simple way for a healthier habit.

A Quick Update

Eid al Adha Mubaaaraaaak!!! (It's the last day of tasyrik, so I guess the late remark is still acceptable?)

Just as the title suggests, this is just an update post so it won't take long.

I've been MIA for the best part of 2017, but the truth is, I've been quite busy with my real life this past nine months as I've changed my relationship status already. Yes, I've GOT MARRIED last December, to the man who's been my best friend beforehand (yup, the one I've dedicated all those nameless birthday post every 25th December, annually).

As the marriage goes along, I've been perfectly happy all this time to the point that I've been delaying my online activities again and again -except on Instagram, which I decided to lock into private mode due to some nuisances. While for this blog, I'll come back to pour out my mind's content every once in a while , but don't expect regularity. I might even leave it be for the rest of the year. Who knows?

Anyway, that's it. I'm just going to enjoy my new life and thanking Allah for His continuous blessing on me and my family. See you when I see you.

By the way, isn't that scenery breathtaking? Can't wait to come back there real soon ^^.

Happy Birthday to You

Happy Birthday, Sweetheart!

No song lyrics for you this year, haven't got time to find one :D

Anyway, I'm sooo glad that now you're older than me again, haha.

^_^

People Change

People change. That's a common knowledge.

However, it occurs to me that we human come too quickly into conclusion. We tend to judge other people too easily without really understand their situation. Or maybe, we just misjudge them, that we don't know them well enough to have the right to tell them so. I've personal experience to be able to say this.

It happened to me that someone -an old acquaintance- told me I had changed after some chats. I admit that I was responding not as friendly as I used to, which led that someone to say what they said. Then again, little did they know that the change in my attitude was due to their acting as a spy by asking me questions and then passing them to someone else who I had removed from my contact. It annoyed me so much that I decided to put some distance in the not-so-close friendship.

At another time, I got cold responses from someone I want to reconnect with. Maybe they still think of me as a nuisance, still haven't forgiven me for whatever it was the problem years ago. I've come to the point that if they don't want to reconcile, that's fine by me.

In the end, people do change for a better or worse, though it's not our business to tell them so right in their face.